About Me

Everyone deserves loving touch.

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Sexual wellness is a core need for most people, yet it is often assumed that people who experience disability don't have these needs or desires.

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I believe everyone should live a whole life, and everyone deserves access to cuddling, kissing, dating and intimate experiences.

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From  my own personal experience of disability, I am proud to offer my services to marginalised communities regardless of the type of dis/ability they experience.

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While everyone's experience of disability is different I know that it's often the least interesting thing about you - and I can't wait to find out who you are, what makes you tick and explore sexual desire with you.

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My experience

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I was born with cancer. The first few years of my life involved hospitals, drugs, surgeries and treatments. My left eye was removed when I was 18 months old, leaving me partially sighted with a prosthetic eye.

 

The treatments left permanent deformities to my face and while I had dental reconstruction in my early teens, I still can only eat with one part of my mouth.

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Don't worry - my mouth is fully functional for kissing - and everything else ;)

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I was diagnosed with ADHD in my early 30s, and to finally get the support I needed was life changing.

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We're often so good at 'getting on with it' that we don't realise that things could be different until we have that break through moment.

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Discovering me is that break through moment for many people. Knowing that I want to touch you and hold you and get to know you. Knowing that you don't have to worry that I'll look at you differently and that sex is a great adventure we can explore together - it's such an amazing journey.

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Comfort levels​

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I have experience liaising with carers, PAs and parents.

 

I have spent time with people who use a wide range of wheelchairs, several different models of hoist and can assist with bathroom requirements and being present through the night.

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I'm not so good with needles!

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I am comfortable with non-verbal clients and interacting via communication aides, text message, facial cues and getting my ear in for different pronunciation.

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I have enjoyed the pleasure of people with a wide range of neurodiversity and learning difficulties and can provide information for competence assessments.

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​I have several non-sighted clients and can travel to locations that cater to whatever mobility level is required.

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I am okay with skin issues, so long as they're not contagious and I am made aware of them beforehand.

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I understand that while people may have the same disability, that they express themselves in different ways, so I always engage with people in a curious way.

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I am comfortable that you're the expert in your own body so if there's not something I have experienced before and  you're happy to guide me through, I am happy to follow.

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I have had the pleasure of meeting people at all levels of experience of sex, including first times. I enjoy catering to a wide range of fantasies and kinks and hope that I am a person that people feel comfortable talking about this with - if there are services you'd like that I don't offer, I will let you know without judgement, and can usually recommend someone who does offer these!

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​I offer all new clients a complimentary 15 min Compatibility Call which does not obligate you in any way to move forward. Sometimes it's just easier to ask questions over the phone and do a vibe check!

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We also don't have to explore intimacy during our time together, I'm always happy to move at your speed so we're both feeling comfortable and confident at all times.​​